Steps to Apply Lubricant for Anal Sex
- Prepare Yourself and Your Partner:
- Wash hands and the anal area with warm water, wipes and gentle cleanser to maintain hygiene.
- Discuss comfort levels, boundaries, and ensure mutual consent.
- Consider using the bathroom beforehand, as the anus may have residual waste.
- Start with a Small Amount of Lube:
- Squeeze a generous amount of lube onto your fingers.
- Apply it directly to the anus in and around the entrance. Don’t skimp – anal sex requires more lubrication than vaginal sex.
- Reapply as Needed:
- Add more lubricant as the activity progresses to prevent discomfort or friction.
- Keep the lube bottle handy.
- A generous amount of lubricant can prevent irritation or tearing
- Go Slow and Gently:
- Start with fingers or small toys to relax the anal muscles.
- If using toys or a penis, ensure the tip and staff is well-lubricated before penetration.
- Gradually ease into penetration and communicate about pressure and pace.
- Additional Steps Protection:
- Change condoms or use a wipe wash thoroughly before switching between anal and other types of sex or in between parties and toys if in a group setting.
- Aftercare:
- Clean up by washing all the areas anal area, legs, penis, gently with wipes or cleanser and warm water. Best if you can urinate and clean up within 25 minutes of sex can greatly reduce your chance of sti’s irritation by up to 50%
- Use cleanser or wipes to remove any residual lubricant, especially silicone-based lube, which can linger.
- Relax, communicate with your partner, and ensure comfort.