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How Lubricants Differ for Pleasure: You Can Feel the Love! 💖

How Lubricants Differ for Pleasure: You Can Feel the Love! 💖

Alright, pleasure seekers, let’s talk about lube. Because not all lubes are created equal, and honey, if you’re still using whatever random bottle you grabbed from the drugstore—we need to talk.

The right lube can take your pleasure from meh to OH. MY. FABULOUSNESS. ✨ So buckle up, buttercup, because we’re about to break down how different lubricants bring different kinds of love to your body.

And when you’re ready to upgrade your pleasure game? You know where to go: 👉 store.thelubeclub.com 💦


1. Plant-Based Lube: Your New Go-To BFF 💧

Imagine the hydrating, juicy glow of your favorite moisturizer—but for down there. That’s plant-based lube. It’s light, it’s Slick Satin silky, and it plays well with everything (yes, even your fave silicone toys).

Feels fresh and natural (like your own body—just more extra).
Won’t stain your silk sheets (because we like things luxurious).
Compatible with ALL the fun (condoms, toys, partners—you name it).
Nothing like water based its not sticky  (forget everything you think about water based we lifted the bar).

🔥 Best for: Processionals, First-timers, everyday pleasure, toy lovers, and those who just like to keep things smooth, easy, and fabulous.

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2. Don’t Coat your pleasure sensors with Silicone-Based Lube

This lube is the VIP of smoothness—the one that lasts all night long (wink wink). Silicone-based lube is ultra-slippery, doesn’t dry out, and makes every touch feel 10x silkier.

Won’t evaporate (because who has time for interruptions?).
Perfect for water play (shower, pool, bathtub… get creative 😉).
Super smooth, super luxurious, super fabulous.

🔥 Best for: Long sessions, backdoor adventures, and anyone who really likes to glide.

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3. Plant based with a little Avocado Oil: The Sensual, Nourishing Beauty 🌿

If you’re all about that deep, luxurious hydration, oil-based lubes are for you. Think  all natural goodness—like your favorite body oil, but way more fun.

Ultra-Slick (because everywhere should be slippery fun).
Perfect for internal sensual massages (and we highly recommend this).
Feels indulgent, fresh clean, light, and oh-so-loving.

🔥 Best for: Fast N hard or Slow N sensual nights, deep hydration, and those who love a little luxury.

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4. Plant based Lube: Because You Deserve The Best of Both Worlds

Can’t decide between water-based and silicone? Why not have both?! Hybrid lubes blend water’s lightness with silicone’s staying power, giving you the ultimate pleasure mix.

Longer-lasting than water-based, lighter than siliconethe perfect balance.
Safe for most toys (but always double-check!).
Great for every kind of pleasure—solo, duo, or a whole fabulous party.

🔥 Best for: Those who want everything—because why settle?

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So, Which Lube Is Your Soulmate? 💕

Different strokes for different folks (literally), and the right lube makes all the difference. Whether you want light and fresh, silky and smooth, deeply nourishing, or a mix of everything—there’s a perfect match for you.

👉 Now go find your pleasure partner-in-crime right here: store.thelubeclub.com 💦

                               

Because great sex should be effortless, fabulous, and outrageously fun—just like you. 😘

Great Skin & Outrageously Better Healthy Sex: The Fabulous Guide You Need!

Great Skin & Outrageously Better Healthy Sex: The Fabulous Guide You Need!

Hey, you! Yes, you—gorgeous, glowing, pleasure-seeking human. Let’s talk about something outrageously fabulous: how great skin and a healthy sex life go hand in hand. (Yes, really!) It’s time to regenerate, renew, and get downright plump—in all the right ways. 💋

And don’t worry, we’re keeping things fun, fabulous, and just a little bit cheeky—because who said healthy living had to be boring?


1. Healthy Skin = A Voluptuous, Fabulous You 💖

Picture this: smooth, glowing, touchable skin that makes you feel like a total sex goddess (or god, or non-binary deity—we love all flavors here). Great skin isn’t just about looking good—it’s about feeling amazing. And when you feel amazing, well… let’s just say, other activities become a whole lot more fun. 😏

Your Skin’s Secret Lovers:

  • Hyaluronic Acid – Because plump, juicy skin is always in.
  • Natural Oils – Hydration = lubrication, baby.
  • Antioxidants – Protect your glow like it’s your most prized possession (because it is).

2. Pleasure = Self-Care (and We’re Here for It) 😉

Self-care is so much more than face masks and bubble baths (though, let’s be honest, those are fabulous too). Real self-care? Pleasure. And yes, we mean that kind of pleasure.

Did you know that great sex can:
✅ Reduce stress? (Bye, tension wrinkles!)
✅ Improve circulation? (Hello, natural glow!)
✅ Keep skin youthful? (Sex = nature’s retinol. Who knew?)

So whether you’re solo, duo, or having a full-blown pleasure party, make sure you’re using skin-loving, body-safe products to keep things feeling fabulous. And where might you find such fabulousness? Oh, just right here: 👉 store.thelubeclub.com


3. The Outrageously Good-for-You Ingredients You Need 🌿

If you wouldn’t put it on your face, why would you put it… down there? 🤷‍♀️ Your intimate skin is precious, protective, and oh-so-sensitive, so treat it with the best.

🚫 No weird chemicals.
🚫 No funky fragrances.
🚫 No drama.

Just pure, loving, luxurious hydration that makes every touch feel 10x better.

Our top picks?
Aloe Vera – Soothing, hydrating, and cool as a cucumber.
Coconut Oil – Because who doesn’t want to smell delicious?
Hyaluronic Acid – Again, because plump is always in.

And guess what? We’ve got all the good stuff waiting for you right here: store.thelubeclub.com 💦


4. Love Your Skin, Love Your Pleasure, Love Yourself ❤️

Here’s the real tea: when you nourish your skin, you’re nourishing your whole self. Glowing skin, outrageous confidence, and a bedroom (or wherever) full of pleasure? Yes, yes, and yes.

So go on—get fabulous, get hydrated, and get ready for the best sex of your life. 💃

And when you’re ready to upgrade your intimate routine, you know where to go:
👉 store.thelubeclub.com

Because great skin + pleasure = the ultimate power couple. 💋✨

TLC-University Get Ready for Safe, Sexy, and Fabulous Fun! 🌈✨

Get Ready for Safe, Sexy, and Fabulous Fun! 🌈✨

Prep Yourself & Your Partner
Before the adventure begins, wash your hands and the area with warm water or gentle wipes. Chat with your partner—set boundaries, share what feels good, and get that mutual consent flowing! Pro tip: A quick bathroom trip can ease your mind.

Lube is Your Bestie!
Generously apply lube (and we mean generously). Rub it in and around the area—anal play loves extra slickness. Keep the bottle nearby because you’ll likely need to reapply. Remember: More lube = less friction = more fun!

Take It Slow
Start small—fingers or petite toys are perfect for easing in. Coat everything in lube and ease into penetration. Go at your own pace, communicate, and enjoy exploring each other’s comfort zones.

Stay Safe & Swanky
Switching between types of play? Change condoms or wash up thoroughly to keep everything clean and safe. Sharing toys? Fresh condoms or wipes are a must. Keep it classy, keep it safe!

Aftercare is Self-Care
Clean up together—warm water, cleanser, or wipes do the trick. Don’t forget to urinate within 25 minutes to reduce the risk of irritation or infection. Once you’re all fresh, unwind, and share a cuddle or some laughs.

Your Call to Action!
Ready to turn up the heat safely? Grab your lube, chat with your partner, and let the adventure begin. Safe, sexy, and oh-so-fabulous—you’ve got this! 💖

The more you learn We suggest you vist www.thelubeclub.com.com/tlcu  TLC University for
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TLC University Lube Cleanser Sex Hygiene Step By Step for Woman

TLC-University-Blogs-Cleanser-Sex Hygiene Step By Step for woman

How to Clean the Vagina Safely Before AND AFTER Sex

  1. Wash Your Hands:
    • Start by thoroughly washing your hands with TLC’s cleanser or mild soap and water to prevent introducing bacteria.
  2. Use Warm Water:
    • Rinse the external genital area (vulva) with warm water and if you feel you need soap use TLC’s gentile unscented a mild, unscented, pH-balanced soap designed for sensitive areas
    • Avoid inserting water or cleaning agents into the vagina itself, as it is self-cleaning.
  3. Avoid Harsh Soaps:
    • If you prefer to use soap, choose a mild, unscented, pH-balanced soap designed for sensitive areas or TLC’s cleanser that is designed for sensitive areas .
    • Focus only on the external parts of the genital area, such as the labia and the area around the clitoris.
  4. Rinse Thoroughly:
    • Ensure no soap or cleanser residue is left, as it can cause irritation.
  5. Dry Gently:
    • Pat the area dry with a clean, soft towel. Avoid rubbing to prevent irritation.
  6. Optional: Use Unscented Wipes:
    • The TLC’s Wipes are Alcohol-free, unscented wipes that can provide a quick freshen-up for the vulva. Do not insert wipes into the vagina.
  7. Avoid Douching:
    • Do not douche before sex, as it can disrupt the natural vaginal flora and pH balance, increasing the risk of irritation or infection.

Additional Tips for Vaginal Hygiene

  1. Stay Hydrated:
    • Drinking plenty of water helps maintain healthy skin and tissues.
  2. Wear Clean, Breathable Underwear:
    • Opt for cotton underwear to allow air circulation and reduce moisture build-up.
  3. Urinate Before Sex:
    • Emptying the bladder can help you feel more comfortable and reduce the risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs).
  4. Manage Menstrual Hygiene:
    • If you’re on your period, change tampons, pads, or menstrual cups before sex.
  5. Avoid Scented Products:
    • Avoid perfumes, sprays, or scented washes near the vaginal area, as they can cause irritation.

Post-Sex Cleaning

  1. Urinate After Sex:
    • Helps flush out bacteria that may have entered the urethra, reducing the risk of UTIs.
  2. Rinse with Warm Water:
    • Gently clean the external area after sex with water and TLC’s cleanser to remove any fluids or lubricants.
  3. Dry Properly:
    • Pat the area dry to prevent moisture from causing irritation.

Maintaining Vaginal Health

  • A healthy vagina naturally cleanses itself with regular discharge.
  • Any unusual odor, itching, or discomfort may require consultation with a healthcare provider.

 

Douching after sex is generally not recommended due to its potential risks and lack of proven benefits. While some women consider douching as a way to clean the vagina after sex, it can actually disrupt the natural balance of vaginal flora and lead to health issues.

TLC University Lube Cleanser Sex Hygiene Step By step for Men

TLC-University-Cleanser-Sex Hygiene Step By step for men

General Cleaning Steps

  1. Wash Your Hands:
    • Start by thoroughly washing your hands with soap and water. Clean hands reduce the risk of introducing bacteria during intimate contact.
  2. Shower or Bathe:
    • Use warm water and mild, unscented soap to clean your entire body. Pay special attention to intimate areas.
  3. Focus on the Genitals:
    • Penis:
      • For circumcised men: Gently clean the shaft and head.
      • For uncircumcised men: Pull back the foreskin and clean the area underneath to remove smegma or build-up.
    • Scrotum:
      • Wash the scrotum thoroughly to reduce bacteria and odor.
  1. Trim Hair (Optional):
    • Some men prefer to trim pubic hair to reduce sweat and bacteria build-up.

Preparation for Anal Sex

  1. Empty the Bowels:
    • If engaging in anal sex, consider emptying your bowels beforehand. This step helps prevent accidents and increases comfort.
  2. Clean the Area:
    • Use warm water and mild soap to gently clean the anal area. Avoid overly harsh scrubbing, which can irritate the skin.
    • Wet wipes (unscented and alcohol-free) can be used as an alternative.
  3. Optional: Use an Enema:
    • Some men use a small enema to flush out the rectum if they expect deeper penetration. Use only lukewarm water and avoid overuse to prevent irritation.
    • Do not use enemas regularly as they can disrupt the natural flora of the rectum.

Oral Sex Preparation

  1. Oral Hygiene:
    • Brush your teeth and tongue, floss, and rinse with mouthwash before oral sex to ensure fresh breath and reduce bacteria.
    • Avoid brushing or flossing immediately before oral sex to prevent micro-cuts in the mouth, which can increase STI risk.
  2. Rinse Intimate Areas:
    • A fresh rinse of the genitals ensures they are clean and reduces odor.

Post-Cleaning Tips

  1. Avoid Strong Fragrances:
    • Use unscented, pH-balanced products to avoid irritation for both partners.
  2. Wear Clean Clothing:
    • Fresh underwear and clothing keep the cleaned areas free from external contamination.
  3. Stay Hydrated:
    • Drinking water helps maintain body hygiene by promoting healthy skin and better bodily functions.

Steps to Use The Cleanser or Cloth and Water to Help Prevent STI STD

Steps to Use The Cleanser or Cloth and Water to Help Prevent STI STD


Before Sexual Activity:

  1. Wash Your Hands:
    • Use warm water and the lube cleanser to wash your hands thoroughly for at least 20 seconds.
    • This removes bacteria, viruses, or other pathogens that could be transferred during sexual activity.
  2. Wash the Genital Area:
    • Gently clean the genital area (vulva, penis, or scrotum) with our mild, cleaner or wipes and warm water before and after sex or in-between partners if your planning in a group.
    • Avoid douching or inserting soap into the vagina or anus, as this can disrupt the natural microbiome and increase the risk of infection.
  3. Ensure Clean Toys and Accessories:
    • If using sex toys, wash them with wipes or cleanser and water before and after use. Follow manufacturer instructions for cleaning.
    • Rinse thoroughly to remove any cleanser residue that could irritate sensitive tissues.
  4. Ensure Partner Hygiene:
    • Encourage your partner(s) to wash their hands and genitals with soap and water before engaging in sexual activity.

After Sexual Activity:

  1. Wash Hands and Genital Area:
    • After sex, wash your hands and genital area with warm water and our mild cleanser or wipes to remove lube bodily fluids or pathogens that may have come into contact with the skin.
    • If condoms or toys were used, dispose of or clean them properly.
  2. Urinate After Sex:
    • Urinating after sex can help flush out bacteria that might have entered the urethra, reducing the risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs).
  3. Clean Shared Items:
    • If you used toys or accessories, wash them with cleanser and water or wipes immediately.
    • Sanitize them with an appropriate cleaner if recommended by the manufacturer.

General Hygiene Practices to Reduce STI Risks:

  1. Avoid Sharing Towels or Washcloths:
    • STIs like herpes or syphilis can sometimes spread through shared items.
  2. Maintain Regular Hygiene:
    • Washing regularly with our every day wash keeps the skin healthy and reduces the risk of microabrasions, which can make you more susceptible to infections.

Steps to Apply Lubricant for Vaginal Sex

Steps to Use Lubricant for Vaginal Sex

  1. Prepare Yourself and Your Partner:
    • Wash your hands and the genital areas including the vagina with warm water and the lube cleanser or wipes to ensure cleanliness before and after sex.
    • Wipe the penis and or toys before and after intercourse can balance Ph and help you avoid irritation and vaginosis etc
    • Discuss comfort levels and preferences with your partner.
  2. Apply Lubricant:
    • Squeeze a small amount of lubricant onto your fingertips.
    • Apply it directly to the vulva, vaginal opening, and penis. Spread it evenly to ensure adequate coverage.
    • If using a condom, apply lube to the outside of the condom after it’s on for additional glide.
  3. Add More as Needed:
    • Keep the bottle nearby and reapply during sex if you feel friction or discomfort.
    • A generous amount of lubricant can prevent irritation or tearing.
  4. Use Protection:
    • Use a condom or other barrier methods for protection against STIs and unplanned pregnancy if needed.
  5. Aftercare:
    • Clean up by washing all the areas anal area, legs, penis, gently with wipes or cleanser and warm water. Best if you can urinate and clean up within 25 minutes of sex can greatly reduce your chance of sti’s irritation by up to 50%
    • Use cleanser or wipes to remove any residual lubricant, especially silicone-based lube, which can linger.
    • Relax, communicate with your partner, and ensure comfort.

Tips for a Better Experience:

  • Avoid warming or flavored lubricants, lubricants with sugar, vitamin E or C, and toxic chemicals. All of our products are designed to be as safe as possible.
  • All of our lubes and products are pH-balanced. Anal and vaginal health-friendly to minimize irritation.
  • Do a patch test before using a new lubricant to ensure no allergic reactions.

By using SLICK, a high-quality lubricant and following these steps, you can enhance comfort, pleasure, and overall intimacy during  sex.

 

Steps to Apply Lubricant for Anal Sex

Steps to Apply Lubricant for Anal Sex

  1. Prepare Yourself and Your Partner:
    • Wash hands and the anal area with warm water, wipes and gentle cleanser to maintain hygiene.
    • Discuss comfort levels, boundaries, and ensure mutual consent.
    • Consider using the bathroom beforehand, as the anus may have residual waste.
  2. Start with a Small Amount of Lube:
    • Squeeze a generous amount of lube onto your fingers.
    • Apply it directly to the anus in and around the entrance. Don’t skimp – anal sex requires more lubrication than vaginal sex.
  3. Reapply as Needed:
    • Add more lubricant as the activity progresses to prevent discomfort or friction.
    • Keep the lube bottle handy.
    • A generous amount of lubricant can prevent irritation or tearing
  4. Go Slow and Gently:
    • Start with fingers or small toys to relax the anal muscles.
    • If using toys or a penis, ensure the tip and staff is well-lubricated before penetration.
    • Gradually ease into penetration and communicate about pressure and pace.
  5. Additional Steps Protection:
    • Change condoms or use a wipe wash thoroughly before switching between anal and other types of sex or in between parties and toys if in a group setting.
  6. Aftercare:
    • Clean up by washing all the areas anal area, legs, penis, gently with wipes or cleanser and warm water. Best if you can urinate and clean up within 25 minutes of sex can greatly reduce your chance of sti’s irritation by up to 50%
    • Use cleanser or wipes to remove any residual lubricant, especially silicone-based lube, which can linger.
    • Relax, communicate with your partner, and ensure comfort.
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